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#0 by papushika18 (meow) (0 mesaje) at 2010-11-28 05:11:52 (728 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] Editat de către papushika18 la 2013-05-04 13:45:06 Mesaj util ?   Da   92 puncte 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 ... 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 222 223 224 225 226 227 228 229 230 231 232 ... 388 389 390 391 392 393 394 395 396 397 << Precedenta      Următoarea >> #5551 by Mitruţ (12/08/19) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 02:44:18 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5550 Brave90, Noapte Bună Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5552 by blackmd (Madridista de Alma) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 09:12:47 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] Neața Mesaj util ?   Da   2 puncte #5553 by Experiment (Hala Madrid!) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:46:35 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5552 blackmd, Neaţa Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5554 by AlternoJeky (Dᴀᴛᴛᴇʙᴀʏᴏ) (1 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:50:49 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] așhalisalam Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5555 by blackmd (Madridista de Alma) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:52:05 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5554 AlternoJeky, ,Salam Aleicum Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5556 by Experiment (Hala Madrid!) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:52:32 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] buenos dias )) Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5557 by AlternoJeky (Dᴀᴛᴛᴇʙᴀʏᴏ) (1 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:53:02 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5553 blackmd, vorba mea are alt sens ) #5554 AlternoJeky, "... aș hali salam ..." - acum intelegi ? Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5558 by blackmd (Madridista de Alma) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:56:16 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5557 AlternoJeky, "... vorba mea are alt sens ) ..." - înțăles eu Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5559 by AlternoJeky (Dᴀᴛᴛᴇʙᴀʏᴏ) (1 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:56:34 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5556 blackmd, știi de unde să ei pirojocu ) Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5560 by blackmd (Madridista de Alma) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:57:10 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5559 AlternoJeky, ,am mîncat deam az Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5561 by AlternoJeky (Dᴀᴛᴛᴇʙᴀʏᴏ) (1 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:57:27 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5558 blackmd, "... ,am mîncat deam az ..." - vreu ș eu Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5562 by blackmd (Madridista de Alma) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:58:32 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5561 AlternoJeky, "... vreu ș eu ..." - Polka=>Pirajok Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5563 by AlternoJeky (Dᴀᴛᴛᴇʙᴀʏᴏ) (1 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:58:48 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5560 blackmd, n-am polka magică Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5564 by blackmd (Madridista de Alma) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-11 11:59:27 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5563 AlternoJeky, nimeni nare Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5565 by System at 2012-02-11 19:40:47 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] I love this music... and the "sheeps" of course. )) Mesaj util ?   Da   1 puncte #5566 by Wallachiel (Castle of Dreams: Sleeping Garden) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-12 00:50:27 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5565 Romano81, "... I love the sheeps ..." - Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5567 by Brave90 (Goonerette) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-12 01:12:01 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5565 Romano81, zoofilule xD Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5568 by wordep (˜¨˜”°ºThe Phenomenal Oneº°”˜¨˜) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-12 02:18:19 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] mioriiiiiiţe Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5569 by Brave90 (Goonerette) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-12 03:23:17 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] slabași ;/ Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5570 by Mitruţ (12/08/19) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-12 04:16:13 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5571 by System at 2012-02-12 08:02:00 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5566 valachesh, This is not a quote of my post. #5567 Brave90, Deja îţi dai seama ce vestimentaţie erotică ar fi bine să porţi. ^ ^ Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5572 by Wallachiel (Castle of Dreams: Sleeping Garden) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-12 12:32:14 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5565 Romano81, "... I love this music... and the "sheeps" of course. )) ..." - #5571 Romano81, "... This is not a quote of my post. ..." - it is. Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte #5573 by Brave90 (Goonerette) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-12 13:20:23 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5571 Romano81, "... Deja îţi dai seama ce vestimentaţie erotică ar fi bine să porţi. ^ ^ ..." - pt tine tot Mesaj util ?   Da   1 puncte #5574 by Jankar (Quieter Is Louder) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-12 19:29:36 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] Am găsit o istorioară de viaţă pe Fb, care cunoaşte engleza, nu ezitaţi să citiţi! Married or not you should read this... “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband…. The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. ÎnchideЗакрыть Mesaj util ?   Da   2 puncte #5575 by blackmd (Madridista de Alma) (0 mesaje) at 2012-02-12 19:45:34 (665 săptămâni în urmă) - [Link] #5574 Jankar, fck cam lungă,acuș o citesc Mesaj util ?   Da   0 puncte

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